This weekend I had the great privilege of hearing one of my all time favorite bloggers and authors, Jen Hatmaker, speak at an intimate conference for 660 women. Jen's book, For the Love, about giving yourself, and by extension others, grace in a world of impossible standards, was a game changer for me. My Book Club even discussed it and appreciated how real and lovely Jen is, like a best friend you never met. And hearing her speak was exactly the same! She cracked us up with stories about mothering her five kids. And she rocked our safe, comfortable, Christian worlds with the challenge to "stop being weird" and giving Christians a bad name, and just get out there and love people. I have pages and pages of notes with excellent quotes like, "If someone doesn't like you because of Jesus, that's on them. But, if someone doesn't like Jesus because of you, that's on you." or "You can't think your way into a new way of living, you must live your way into a new way of thinking." or "We need to be representatives of the Gospel, not defenders and protectors of it." My drive home was 3 straight hours of processing what all these new challenges are going to look like in my life.
Hearing Jen Hatmaker was amazing all by itself, but what made this weekend extra special was the opportunity to share it with my dear friend Teri. The conference was hosted by her church and located at her school, so she took me in for the weekend and blessed me with meals and good conversation in our down time.
Also fun was seeing so many familiar faces from home! Though the conference was down south a bit, dozens of my favorite ladies from our church and friends from school made the trip too and it was cool to connect.
The whole weekend gave this tired, dry, mama and teacher a much needed gulp of fresh water. I am humming the powerful and God-glorifying songs we sang in worship. I am still smiling over Jen's hilarious stories. And my heart is stirred with her reminder of HOW LOVED we are by God and her bold demand that we represent Christ and that love better and without judgment, hypocrisy, or inflexibility.

