The Perfect Job

Ella was torn when looking for a summer job.  She spent some time and prayer discerning if she should just find something mindless that paid well and was good for her bank account; or something that was good on her pre-med resume (like EMT training or an internship at a local hospital); or something that was good for her soul.  Her former boss, who owns the climbing gym Ella worked at and who also sits on the Board of MH, gave her the "This is the time in your life to do this sort of thing!" pep talk and helped get her a job on the summer staff at the sacred grounds my kids spent 10 childhood summers growing up at!  Ella applied for, interviewed, and was quickly offered a job in the Adventures/Recreation department.  She'll spend her summers guiding kids and parents at Family Camp through ropes courses, rock walls, archery ranges, Canopy Tours, and fieldhouse games.  It could not be a more perfect job!  Oh and her best friend from high school, Maya, also got a job in the Middle School ministries, so they are rooming together for the next few months!  Another perfect piece that fell right into place!

We loved having Ella home for the month of May to recharge and reconnect with friends.  But, this is a gal who thrives with purpose and challenge.  We also loved driving her to her newest home in the coastal redwood forests and mountains to have the kind of summer she'll tell her own kids about some day!  

With it's no a/c, wood paneling, limited drawer space, and forest view, Ella and Maya's dorm room is rustic and cozy and just right for a staff member working at a summer camp!  She brought way less stuff than she had to bring to college, so it was a treat to pack the car so easily!

Gideon gave her flowers in college regularly, so his goodbye for the summer gift was the LEGO flower set for Ella to build and enjoy in his absence.  This had to come along; being carefully held for the 2 hour drive.  Since the drive is nothing compared to the drive to LA and can even be comfortably done while holding a vase of fragile LEGO flowers, we're hoping to make it to Santa Cruz regularly this summer to spend time with Ella on her Saturdays off!

After the time spent getting her all checked and moved in, we had a few hours to enjoy this special place.  We walked all around, sharing favorite memories and having the unchanged sights and smells trigger the nostalgia.  Above is one of the ropes courses Ella will spend her summer on.  Wanna know something funny?  We ended our years of attending Family Camp when Ella was just a few pounds shy of meeting this course's weight requirement!  The training she did on the Sequoia Grove yesterday was her first time on it!  We celebrated that she was finally big enough! ;)

We checked everything off our MH bucket list.  Waterfall: check.

Banana slug sighting: check.

Walk down to the creek and boat dock across the suspension bridge: check.

Fountain: check (not open for ice cream yet, but we sat and talked for a bit).

Famous cluster of redwoods in the middle of camp: check.

Test out the new hammock from Auntie Heather on the fieldhouse lawn: check.  

Ella's schedule for the 10 days of training is packed from 8am to 8pm (or later!) with everything from archery safety to mandated reporter and CPR training to flash mob practice for each week's opening night performance!  All her meals are provided in the dining hall and she reports that the food is GOOD.  There is lots of time for community building and spiritual growth too with whole staff trips to the beach and Maryanne's Ice Cream and worship times and breakout seminars.  So cool to have a job that gives you SO much more than just a paycheck! 

And now a little photographic trip down memory lane!  The first rock wall Ella ever climbed was in this place.

Fears of heights were conquered on the Discovery Grove.

Many a counselor and summer staff member made a lasting impact over the decade we attended.  I just marvel at how the Lord tends to those seeds we sow, weaves our stories in the best ways, and opens doors for us to use our unique gifts and passions to serve Him and His kingdom in soul-feeding ways! 

Surprise!

Well before Ella left college to head home, her boyfriend Gideon texted me with an idea for a grand surprise for Ella's birthday.  We conspired for weeks and pulled it off in what will probably be one of our best weekends this summer!  Many pieces had to be put into place just right to prepare for 5 guests in our home for 4 days without Ella having any idea!  Cleaning happened early in the morning while she slept.  The suspicious amount of groceries I bought was stored in the church fridge.  Air mattresses had to be borrowed.  A birthday cake was made in secret.  Even plans for attending graduation that night had to be flexible and come with logical excuses.  Dave, Delia and I waited in nervous excitement all day as we knew this carload of Ella's people was making the long trip from LA.  We kept whispering "ETA?" to each other in the hallway!

  

The idea to knock on our door and blow Ella's socks off didn't quite happen.  Gideon pulled up and parked on our street, right outside her bedroom window, where they were immediately detected.  We knew they had arrived when we heard Ella run out the door yelling, "WHAT?!" ;)  Still fun and she was still super surprised.

What an amazing group of young people!  Three guys, Gideon, Javen, and Logan and two girls, Ori and Emma, made up the Surprise Crew.  They shared sweet prayer times together.  They thanked me for every meal.  They washed their own dishes.  They made their beds and left their rooms as if no one even stayed in them!  They showered Ella with generous birthday gifts and cards full of kind words.  They asked Dave and I deep questions and invited us into conversations and games.  I'm not surprised Ella has found such quality friends.  It made our jobs as hosts extra easy!  We tightly hugged them each goodbye and already miss them (especially Ivy)!

I had asked Ella when she got home what she wanted to do and see in her few weeks of summer before leaving for her job.  She immediately said, "Yosemite!"  I had to tell her that unfortunately Yosemite was operating on the reservation system this summer and those spots filled months ago.  Little did she know that I managed to snag one of the last 100 spots they open up the week before a day trip!  This was part of her surprise! 

Gideon and Ella were the only ones with Yosemite experience, so they got to show it to brand new eyes!  I sometimes wish I could see Yosemite again for the first time.  These are city kids, we got a kick out of explaining "hiking" to some of them the night before! ;)

They decided to tackle the, arguably, best day hike in Yosemite-- the Mist Trail.  It's a hike we've done many times.  It's straight uphill, but has great view payoffs.  They all loved it. 

Dave went along as chauffer, passholder, guide, and photographer.  He really liked getting to spend a whole day with these kids.  Delia and I had grad parties to attend on this day, so we didn't go.  There wouldn't have been room for us anyway.  Delia was not sad to miss a day of hardcore hiking, I was a little.  Especially after the stress of securing the reservation.

In May, the falls are really pumping!  Clothes and shoes needed to be hung up to dry when they all got home, they got SO misted!

They even conquered allllll those killer stone steps that take them to the top of the falls!  

They had time to do the Yosemite Falls trail loop too-- an easy hike after the strenuous Mist Trail.

These 6 college kids (plus Delia) spent the whole weekend laughing and playing games and showering Ivy with attention and loving one another!  How we enjoyed getting to know them and learning more about the awesome community Ella has built this year.  We heard a lot about it and got peeks on visits, but to be in the middle of her group was different and so special.  My table, couch, church pew, house, and heart were full!

On our last day with the college visitors, we shared a special breakfast together before they hit the highway for the long drive back to LA.  Since this was the day before our big 25th anniversary and Dave's busy schedule prevents any kind of other celebrating this week, I'm counting this as our fancy anniversary meal.  It's kind of perfect actually-- 25 years of marriage has yielded a life that is full and sweet and a family we created together that I adore.  

Spring Formals

A Spring highlight when you are an upperclassman is always Junior/Senior Banquet (JSB).  This is our school's version of Prom, but with a twist.  The whole night is designed to honor the Seniors and is hosted by the Juniors.  Delia loved being on the JSB Planning Committee and gave up many lunch times this season to brainstorm ideas and get plans finalized.  She's proud that the theme "A Knight in New York" was actually her idea!  The venue was decorated to look like New York City, with string lights, street signs, a cityscape, and a flowery photo backdrop for "Central Park".  Each table was set with an iconic scene from NYC-- like Yankee Stadium, Broadway, the Statue of Liberty, or cabs and city streets.  The food was served in stations and was themed for some of the different parts of New York, like pizza, Chinese food, and cheesecake.  She worked hard and felt like the event went well.

So, best friend Natalie is actually a sophomore and not able to go to JSB, but she still sweetly offered to do Delia's hair for it.  She did a great job and, as always, the getting ready time ends up being some of the most fun!

Fun story about Delia's dress-- it came from Emma, the friend Ella is going to room with next year!  It was a dress she had ordered that didn't fit quite right, so, on a visit, she offered it to Delia with the tags still on.  We just bought the cute hot pink shoes!  When asked about her dress, Delia likes telling the story of how it was free and from the closet of her sister's college friend!

Delia has a couple friend groups.  This Junior girl friend group is one I really enjoy!  They are silly and creative and tons of fun.  

Poor Julia broke her ankle days before sliding into a base at her softball game, but she's the artist of the bunch and bedazzled her cast to match her dress. Don't you love it?

Kate and Ava have been Delia's friends since early elementary and preschool!  They are each uniquely gifted.  Ava is brilliant, Kate is amazing at all sports.  I love this trio-- the actress, the athlete, and the (probably) valedictorian!

I must have a hundred pictures of Delia and Kate together through the years.  When asked how they wanted to pose, "Let's high five while cheering 'Friendship!'" was how these goofy girls answered.

A few other Junior friends joined the group for photos a little later-- twins Meg and Katie.

At the event, Delia met up with dear Senior friends Laura and Anika-- this is a group featuring some of my favorite gals!  They are all leaders and Jesus-loving, light-shining, beautiful on the inside and outside ladies!

Their table-- Delia scored the Broadway table for her and her friends (of course).

Ella had a Spring Formal too!  Hers was a masquerade!  She loved getting dressed up to dine and dance with all her good friends as well.

Her friend group is also uniquely gifted and awesome-- there are some big brains in this group, performers, Logan (in they yellow mask) is a Cinema Arts Major who you might actually recognize from the commercials he's done, and just some wacky humor too-- don't you love the guy in the gas mask?! ;)

Ella's Last Days

The month of May has been a blur-- not for the same reasons as last year, though!  Without a graduate, we find ourselves much less busy.   It's mostly because we've been in a time of transition again!  Ella is home!  However, a two week sinus infection that kicked my butt and kept me in bed for several days, finishing up school (while writing sub plans for some of those days, grrr), closing up my classroom for the summer, and taking AP and final exams for Delia has kept us from doing super fun things with her.  She's getting lots of time to rest and recharge and connect with her old high school friends.  She started some of her online summer classes too.  She leaves for her summer job already on her birthday!  Yesterday was the last day of teaching for me and attending classes for Delia and each day I feel a bit better, so hopefully we'll have 2 weeks of amazing quality time together before we have to say goodbye again.

Before she left school, she and a good friend did a cute photoshoot around campus.  All of Ella's exams, even her hardest ones, went great!  She finished with an impressive GPA and a lot to look forward to next year!  Bidding goodbye to the friends for a few months was hard, but they had some fun adventures before they parted-- like trips to the LA Zoo and Long Beach Aquarium.

As the stories from the school year trickle out of Ella, we just thank and praise God again for clear calling, providential dorm placement, the strength and clarity of mind to kill it in those tough pre-med classes, and the amazing people He surrounded Ella with.  It was the best year and we've already discussed how dropping her off again in August won't be sad at all.

Dave did something kind of fun when it was time to move Ella out a few weeks ago.  He took a whole week of vacation and did a little SoCal baseball stadium tour!  He saw a San Diego Padres game at beautiful PetCo Stadium. 

An Angels game at their old, iconic park (right by Ella's school actually). 

And a game at historic Dodger Stadium on his last night in LA.

Ella and Gideon actually joined him for that game for a last date!

It was an exciting extra-innings, walk-off-win game with fireworks on the field at the end of it!  A truly grand finale for Ella's first year of living in LA.

Dave got bit by the baseball stadium touring bug now!  We won't travel just for this, but he said if we're ever in a place vacationing or visiting family (like Denver!), he wants to make seeing a game there a priority!  He works hard; I'm glad he could have this week of fun enjoying something he loves.