Wednesday, May 28, 2025

Delia's Senior Year

As I did with Ella, here is a post 9 months in the works!  I'll start writing it in August of 2024 and will publish it in May of 2025 after feeling allll the feelings of Senior Year for our last kid.


The school year kicks off the morning of the First Day with Senior Sunrise.  The Seniors put on their custom painted jeans and meet on the football field to watch the sun rise over their last year together.  




Then they are graciously hosted at the home of a classmate and served a delicious breakfast.  I do love the tone this sets for the year.  Our Seniors are honored and loved well all year!


These official Senior photos are never something we order because I find them kind of cheesy, but I'll post the proofs here because Delia does look so pretty. ;)  Our school does this strange thing making every girl and boy match with a fake suit and black drape thing.  The upper middle picture ended up being used for all the social media and graduation posts in May.


In the fall, Delia started her journey to The Final Bow.  She LOVED her cast of Shrek and the experience performing as a veteran.  She worked hard to develop a relationship with and mentor all the underclassmen.  Her director, Mrs. M, started posting these lovely tributes to Delia for her final year in Drama.



The Senior schedule offers a lot of space for electives!  Delia enjoyed taking Home Economics her first semester and Choir her second semester.  (In full disclosure, the Choir choice was actually just to be with friends and gain a study hall a few days a week! :)  Above is one of Delia's favorite sewing projects-- a darling apron she made for Ella for Christmas.  And below is Delia's final choir concert ever, a fun Disney-themed one.


One of the best Senior classes our kids take is "Christian Marriage and Family".  The topic is engaging and the teacher is a favorite.  One of the big assignments is to interview an older role model about their marriage and record wisdom and lessons learned. Delia interviewed Grandma and her sweet teacher sent me this pic of her proudly sharing her project with the class.


When the college acceptances and boxes of swag started arriving, next year started feeling extra real and exciting!  I'll use this space to brag about how well Delia did with scholarships-- she got 5 scholarships totaling almost $30,000! 



"Play Season" continued into the winter as Delia was honored to be asked once again to mentor the Middle School play, Annie.  This year she was even given extra responsibilities-- running practices when the director couldn't be there and choreographing two of the songs herself.  She formed a sweet bond with the middle schoolers and felt proud of how she handled the leadership role-- to the point of considering if directing and choreographing kids in plays might be something she wants to do in the future, along with counseling...?  One of her favorite new friends was 7th grader Abigail, who played Miss Hannigan.  Abigail's mom will actually be my first grade partner next year, so the girls are delighted to find their paths keep crossing!



Senior year is a time to support your friends!  Delia's been there for Senior sports nights, Homecoming Court, concerts and more this year.  



Not necessarily Senior-specific, but one fun week this year, Delia got to step away from regular classes to do some special projects.  One day she job shadowed me in the preschool all day (above).  The kids LOVED her!  We're still laughing about one of my favorite little guys sitting down next to her and saying, "Hey, I'm Truman.  I can open the fridge all by myself."  Another day, Delia and some friends got their inflatable costumes on and helped run our school's jog-a-thon.  Delia was a literal chicken jockey on this day. ;)



Ahh, we've reached the Final Show pictures.  This was SUCH a special show for Delia to go out on.  It was the perfect part and she had a ton of fun with it.  Mrs. M. has made no secret of the fact that the class of 2025 is extra dear to her, so she honored them well with features in the program, generous social media posts, and teary speeches on Senior Night.  




Delia kissed the stage goodbye and then started looking into what it would take to add a Theater Minor to her Psychology Major and Biblical Studies Minor in college.  She just doesn't think she's done performing.


Speeches and hugs to close out an amazing 13 show, 6 year run in our school's Theater program.  What joy, purpose, community, and opportunity to grow gifts and passions Delia has found here! 



Our school hosts a special day for our Seniors that the entire student body participates in.  The Seniors don their band new caps and gowns for the first time and then take a walk through the breezeways and hallways many of them have walked since kindergarten.  Every student and teacher line up outside their classrooms to high five and hug the passing Seniors.  Delia said she made a little traffic jam in the middle school and freshman hallways as she was hugged by all her younger drama friends.  





The parents are at the end of line for our own high-fives and hugs.  Then we circle up around the class to pray over them.


After the walk, we proceed to the Senior Chapel to be led in a time of worship by our Seniors.  Delia shared testimony about what it means to face her future and "not be anxious about anything."  Here is what she said: "Faith and trust in God play a big role in overcoming anxiety. God is always with us and constantly helps us fight our battles. We can find comfort in Him because we have no reason to fear anything. Because of Jesus’ sacrifice, our salvation is assured, and we are already citizens of God’s perfect kingdom. He calls us by name and welcomes us with open arms. We no longer need to fear death because of the wonderful life that is promised to us. For all the worldly things in our lives that make us anxious, we always have God’s word to dive into and be inspired by His comforting messages. We can also pray to God and lift our struggles or anxieties to Him. He will hear our cries and help us, whether it be through someone we can talk to or a behavior or habit the Holy Spirit helps us change. God hears us and is always beside us. His words and promises are a solid rock we can stand on amidst the shaky and insecure views of the secular world that affect our anxious tendencies."


The first Senior tears sprang from my eyes on this day as beautiful prayers of blessing were spoken over our kids by the administrators and teachers who love them.

Delia learned her classmates voted her "Best Laugh" for the yearbook's Senior Superlatives and she loves it!  So do we!  We have good laughers, like Anna and Grandma, in our lives; Delia carries on their laughing legacy! :)

 
This wholesome class came up with a pretty funny Senior Prank.  The superintendent's son Jared is in the class.  At 5am, he let all his Senior classmates, wearing jammies and carrying blankets, sneak into his house like silent ninjas.  When his dad, Mr. S., woke up and wandered into the living room, he found what appeared to be a big sleepover!  They got him! Mrs. S. was in on it, thank goodness, and had donuts for them all.  



Field Day is our school's epic battle of class vs. class.  It's always rigged so the Seniors win and this year was no exception.  Delia is not competitive or sporty, so she's mostly there for the BBQ lunch, time with friends, and custom colored shirts. :)



I love our school's policy of recognizing that our Seniors have their future plans, college acceptances, and scholarships secure at this point, so there is no reason for them to take final exams.  Instead they put them on a fancy bus at 3am for a grand Senior Trip to SoCal.  Delia's class went to Disneyland!!


She had the BEST time doing Disney with friends and sent me these fun updates all day long while I was still in school.  Spiderman rides and Dole Whips and character sightings and roller coaster selfies!  I love these core memories for her and her friends.








The trip is a couple days and after their day in Disney, they next head to Huntington Beach.  The kids are admittedly exhausted after the all night bus ride and 12+ hours in the park the day prior.  Super fun on beach day was Gideon, who lives nearby, coming over to hang with Delia and her friends and play a few rounds of sandy spike ball.  The merging of important high school and college people!



As the school year opens with Senior Sunrise, it closes with Senior Sunset.  The class gathers at the country home of a classmate the night before graduation to watch the sun set on their years together at this school.  A beautiful tradition and metaphor.





Our Seniors spend their last hours together immediately after graduation (which will be its own separate post :) at an epic all night Sober Grad party.  The moms that run this must have found some insanely generous donors this year because Delia had a BIG Sober Grad!  They hopped on a fancy double decker bus to Sacramento to spend the night at the Top Golf they rented out!  Endless food and drinks, fun golfing with friends, and prizes awarded every few minutes had Delia coming home not tired from yet another all-nighter, but super pumped about the $200 cash, Target gift card, Jamba Juice gift card, and huge laundry hamper full of dorm supplies that she won!  We've always said that our kids don't need a bribe to stay sober on grad night, but this night is a crazy fun, super grand finale way to celebrate their years at this school!



It's been a great year!  It's been a great thirteen years!! I'm so thankful for the education and experiences both my girls received at our beloved school.  And I'm thankful to still have a part of it for other students as a teacher.  I don't know yet what it will feel like to drive to school without a passenger in my car or to watch a play without one of our own kids in it, but I know Delia feels ready for this chapter to close and an exciting new one to start. 

Sunday, April 27, 2025

Enjoy a Final Set of Prom Pics

I think they played the song End of the Road by Boyz II Men at our Senior Prom. I'm feeling those lyrics as we enter the month of May with our own Senior and get to the end of that road of so many things that have become our routine these past 6 years of high school.  Junior Senior Banquet (JSB), our school's version of Prom, is one of those!  For the last time, Delia dressed up, did fancy hair with friends, posed for pictures, and enjoyed the festivities with upperclassmen friends.  We know there will be plenty of formals in college, and in many ways they are MORE fun, but this is still a milestone Last.


Delia loves getting ready at her friend Natalie's house, who does amazing hair.  And these silly girls just can't get ready for a formal without making a hilarious video!


Natalie went her own way with Junior friends, but we had to get some pictures of this lovely pair.  Natalie is a friend at the top of the list of people Delia will miss next year.  She and her family are so dear to us-- an answer to our prayers to surround Delia with people who are a positive influence and point her to the Lord!




(When the loveable little brother pops in the picture!)


Actually, Delia's hair and dress are courtesy of Natalie!  She ordered this dramatic blue dress and found it way too long for her petite frame.  When her family tried to return it, they were refunded, but told to just keep the dress.  Free dress!! So, they passed it along to Delia, who even shared it with Ella before wearing it herself for the college formal a few weeks ago.  

The back is super pretty!  And all that fabric was just begging to be twirled!


After getting ready with Natalie, it was off to Julia's house for pictures with the Seniors.  We appreciate Julia and her family always donating their gorgeous backyard, pool, and orchard as a perfect photo backdrop.  This year Julia's little brother Vince (who is quite skilled with a camera!) was our photographer, gifting the group this gorgeous album.  Love how formals are a family affair! ;)








Gotta get the now-traditional picture with best friend Kate!





The report was that this year's JSB, with its Murder Mystery theme, was super fun! The actual dinner and dancing of formals is often not even as fun as the getting ready with friends.  And how I love being a mom behind the camera at the photo spot, joining the chaos of other cheesy parents chatting with, admiring, and probably embarrassing our beautifully-dressed, but awkwardly-posed, teenagers.  This might be a high school thing I miss more than my kids.   Maybe Delia's Junior friends will let me come take pictures for them next year! ;)

Wednesday, April 16, 2025

Mock Rock Weekend!

Ella's (and Delia's ;) college has this one epic event that is prepared for all year long-- Mock Rock.  It's a legendary lip sync/dance battle between 5 teams with long history at the school.  Each of the teams has a personality or vibe.  You usually join one by invitation or because you have a friend on it.  Ella decided to dust off her stage skills this year and join the Mock Rock team her good buddy Javan is a part of, BroPoc.  The leaders of each team come up with a theme that is kept super secret until the night of performance.  A short movie is shot setting up the story and then a 10 minute long song and dance production tells that story.  Ella's theme was Murder Mystery/Clue this year.  Other teams did things like Spider Man, Greatest Showman, and the Wizard of Oz.  Some teams always retell a movie that is familiar, some teams always come up with original student-written material.  After each team performs they are commented on and judged by a panel of people who either work for the school, or work for the entertainment industry, or both.  Those judges determine which 3 teams will go to "Podium", from which everyone watching then gets to vote on the winner via their phone.  

ELLA'S TEAM BROPOC WON IT ALL THIS YEAR!!  They broke a 10 year second-place streak with this victory!  We joke that Ella was the difference. :) Their theme was amazing, and their choreography was definitely the tightest and best.  Overall, their performance was the most polished, layered, and spectacular.  Though, every single team was awesome and very fun to watch!  

The week of Mock Rock is called Hell Week and it is expected that practices go till 3 or 4 in the morning.  There are also only 1700 seats in the gymnasium, so when tickets are released online at 10am the day before, there is stress and virtual queues and the possible disappointment of needing to watch the livestream from a remote location if you can't secure one of those precious tickets.  We were each able to score tickets.  Students camp out in line the night before, so when the doors open, they get the best seats.  We had Gideon's family waiting in line for us all day.  It's kinda nuts what an ordeal this all is; I must admit that I didn't really understand it until we experienced it in person.  The hype builds up the thrill for sure!



The announcement of the winner!

(I'll share the professional YouTube video in a separate post.)


You KNOW that Delia can not wait to be a part of all this!  She'll join her sister's victorious team next year!



Not only did we get to see our first Mock Rock, it was also Formal weekend!  Ella's friends kindly snuck Delia in and she had a blast.  I helped curl hair in a dorm room full of about 12 college girls.  And then I got to take up my old role as photographer.  Delia spent the weekend in Ella's dorm with her sister and friends, hearing over and over how excited these upperclassman are to welcome her next year.  It's safe to say this super fun college weekend kicked a massive case of Senioritis into gear.  



This Mock Rock weekend timed perfectly with the start of our Spring Break.  We had a lovely Spring Break weekend in LA!  While the girls stayed on campus, we were generously hosted by Gideon's family, who live a minute walk from the beach.  Their home is amazing and definitely gave us all the beach vacation feels.  We loved just getting to know them better in unplanned times of morning coffee in jammies, or late night catch up on the day conversations.  We all worked to put an entire puzzle together one afternoon and that time to laugh and connect was honestly one of my most fun memories of this trip!


We thrifted.  We strolled the dog beach at Huntington.  We ate noodles at the Pho spot by school.  We attended Javan's church in Long Beach on Palm Sunday.


We went to a beautifully restored old theater in Seal Beach to watch the classic The Sandlot with Gideon and his family.  This was one of Dave's favorite memories.


We ate warm cinnamon rolls on the beach and couldn't stop giggling in the kitschy shell shop downtown.



We toured Ella's science building, met the zebra fish she's been studying all semester, and tried to understand her OChem notes (that's her work on the white board!).  We watched her Swing Dance Club host a Lindy Bomb at the fountain.  

We also met Delia's roommate Audrey and her mom for breakfast one morning and this was wonderful!  The connection they've built over distance was affirmed and we feel good that God has intentionally brought these two similarly pure, Jesus-loving, kind girls together.  I don't actually have tons of pictures because most of our time was just spent visiting with the people Ella's college education has brought into our lives!  Her friends are all so delightful and would often spot us in the dorm lobby, or around campus, and stop for a hug and long chat.  Each visit to this school is a bit different and this one was less about the sights of LA and more about enjoying the community of the school-- from its fun weekend events to its warm, friendly people.  

Ella's Dance on YouTube!


A short cut to the You Tube video. Click on the words YouTube to view it full screen.  Ella is in a pink blazer and gray pants and can usually be found in the back or on the right side.  At 6:45, there's a good close up of her. :)

After Show

For this show, we were blessed again to have some special family members sitting in the audience with us!  Grandma, Grandpa, and Uncle Kyle made the trip to see Delia shine on stage and then take her final bow.  We're always so thankful to share these milestone moments in our kids' lives with others who love them too!

Here are a few after-show shots.

First day of full dress, hair and makeup.  Delia was excited to have the big gorgeous hair for this role! :)


The VIPs!


Proud family, once again.

Mrs. M and Ericka, there are hardly enough words.  Here is what I wrote them: "For eight years our famly has always been in 'play season'.  We love the thrill of watching a show come together from the jitters of auditions to the high of the final bow.  Through every step, you've guided our girls-- encouraging them to develop their gifts not just for the quality of the show, but for the glory of God.  We've surrendered them into your care for hundreds of hours and have nothing but trust and appreciation for truth you've spoken, character you've' developed, and lessons you've taught.  We can't thank you enough for your commitment to cultivating an awesome drama program, but even more importantly, to loving our kids so well."

Some of the church friends who've grown up coming to Ella and Delia's shows.  We're so thankful for their support!


This is neat one.  Above is Megan, a long time friend from the days when she was a high school mentor to Delia in middle school.  She brought Delia flowers for her final show.  And below is Olivia, the amazingly talented middle school gal who played Annie, who Delia mentored this year!    These two pictures show what I love about our drama program-- the past, present, and future built on mentoring, friendships, and someone great to look up to!  Lots of tears as this final show for Delia hit these old and new friends.


The program picture for this show's scene-stealers: Nostradamus and Shakespeare-- hilariously played by Delia's "little brother" Trevor.

All the sweet friends who were in the show and who came to see it.

Some wacky fun before heading out for a cast party that went late into the night!  They are a bunch who love each other and know how to have fun!  


I'm saving most of the Senior Bow and Speech stuff for a special Senior post, but I'll say here that this was a very special, feeling-full season for all of us.  Delia was generously honored throughout the production of this show by her directors, the school, and her castmates.  She leaves feeling very loved and very good about the impact she made on the program in her years dedicated to it.


There is a show link! Let me know if you want to watch it! :)