As mentioned, Ella turned 14 while we were on this trip. Her birthday and a whole week spent in her company caused me to reflect on something that probably seems so obvious: our little girl is growing up. We've moved into a new stage of parenting this teenager. We don't take care of her in the same way. We do a lot more listening and question asking and training. Through all this, what a joy it is to discover that the person we're raising is actually one of our favorite people to be around! Ella is smart and funny and teaches us stuff now. She is definitely her own person-- a gal who loves Chinese food, and Marvel movies, and her friends; someone who is passionate about and whose heart breaks for the unborn; a girl with many interests and talents who can't wait to explore new opportunities in high school! We're proud, but also just delighted in the young lady Ella is growing up to be. We hope as she moves even more towards independence, she'll continue to give her old parents a bit of her time too...not because we're trying to be controlling or helicopter-y, but because we just love being with her.
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Happy 14th birthday, Ella! This is a birthday that you will remember since you had such awesome experiences surrounding it. We love you, and will be praying for you as you enter high school this year. Love, Grandma & Grandpa
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